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Tuesday, January 2, 2018

LOCAL HOLIDAY DECORATIONS

I drove around the neighborhood collecting photos of decorations. When I was little, my mother wouldn't take our family to look at lights, she said, "They're tacky." Well, y'know little kids don't know what tacky is, but they love holiday lights and decorations that fill their minds with wonder. The more wonder in their minds and hearts, the more creative they are, the better readers they are and the more innovative they'll be throughout their live. I don't do a great job of driving and taking pictures at the same time. Hope you'll forgive me and still enjoy them. Who care about tacky anyway.






These are my favorite holiday scenes. My puppies playing with my husband at Nana's farm.

Monday, January 1, 2018

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2018. CELEBRATE!

I'm not sure this isn't for a different holiday, but this is how New Year's looks to me.


Saturday, December 30, 2017

KEY OF HOPE CHOIR

I don't know a lot about the religious charity or mission group that developed Key of Hope Choir from Africa. My niece who lives in Rochester, Michigan is involved with the group when they perform in her area. These children were born with AIDS, innocent victims of a terrible disease. As I understand when they return home they live in cardboard boxes or other poor quality housing. I don't see how they can look so joyful as they sing after seeing the great wealth while travelling the world, then returning to their poverty and stark lives in Africa. I thought that the holiday season is a good time for people who might be interested to take a look at them.
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Sunday, December 24, 2017

HAPPY HOLIDAYS!

Thank you Wikimedia Commons and livelearn.ca

NINE HOLIDAYS YOU MIGHT NOT KNOW ABOUT:

Did you know that people celebrate more than Christmas during the holiday season in Canada? By holiday season I mean the period starting from fall to early January. With so many diverse cultures living together in harmony in this country, it is certainly not surprising that many celebrations – religious, secular, or cultural – are celebrated here.
Well I say, the more the merrier! Here are other celebrations this season you may want to know more about:
  1. Diwali (Hindu)

    It is a five-day holiday of lights usually celebrated in the fall as dates depend on the moon cycle. This year, Diwali started on October 19. It will be celebrated on November 7 in 2018. Diwali celebrates the victory of light over darkness or the triumph of good over evil. Hindus also take advantage of this period to contemplate and dispel the darkness of ignorance. As a symbolic gesture, they display diyas which are small clay oil lamps or candle holders.
  2. Bodhi Day (Buddhist)

    This commemorates the exact moment of Buddha’s awakening (under the peepal, now known as Bodhi, tree). Celebrated on December 8, it is a celebration of enlightenment, and a day for remembrance, meditation and chanting. At the start of Bodhi day, people decorate a ficus tree with multi-coloured lights strung with beads. This symbolizes the varied paths to Nirvana (their ultimate state/goal) and signifies that all things are united.
  3. Hanukkah (Jewish)

    Also known as the Festival of Lights, Hanukkah will be celebrated from the evening of December 12 to December 20 this year. It commemorates the rededication and purification of the Temple by the Maccabees after the Jews’ victory over the Greek Syrians in 165 BC. The most well-known symbol of this celebration is the menorah (see photo above), which is a type of candelabra. During the festival, one candle is lighted each day. This represents the miracle during the battle in which the Temple’s candelabrum, which had a limited supply of oil, burned for eight days and nights continuously.
  4. Winter Solstice (various cultures/religions)

    Many cultures all over the world celebrated (and some continue to celebrate) winter solstice even before Christmas came to be. In fact, the term Yule, which is now equated with the Christmas season (yuletide), was derived from an old European holiday at the start of the solar year called the celebration of Light and the Rebirth of the Sun. Other winter solstice celebrations include:
    • Feast of Juul (Scandinavian) – A pre-Christian festival celebrated in December. On this day, a yule log is burned on the hearth in honor of the Scandinavian god, Thor.
    • Yalda (Persia/Iran) – Also called Shab –e-Yalda, it marks the last day of the Persian month of Azar during ancient times. It commemorates the victory of light over dark and the birth of the sun god Mithra.
    • Saturnalia (ancient Roman) – Aside from winter solstice, Saturnalia celebrates the end of the planting season. It was marked by games, feasts and gift-giving for several days.
    • St. Lucia’s Day (Scandinavian) – On this day, girls dress up in white gowns with red sashes and wreaths of candles on their heads to honor the saint. It is also called the festival of lights as people light up fires to ward off spirits at night.
    • Dong Zhi (Chinese) – Dong Zhi celebrates the end of harvest and the arrival of winter. In the traditional Chinese celestial calendar, this falls between the 21st and 23rd of December. Families gather together to enjoy a feast in celebration.
    • Gody (Poland) – this is the tradition of showing forgiveness and sharing food. It was part of pre-Christian winter solstice celebrations.
    • Chaomos (Kalasha, Pakistan) – Kalasha or Kalash Kafir people celebrate for at least seven days. It involves ritual baths for purification, singing and chanting, a torchlight procession, dancing, bonfires, and feasts.
    • St. Thomas Day/Sun God festival (Guatemala) – December 21 is the feast day of St. Thomas the Apostle. However, on this day, Mayan Indians also hold a festival honoring the sun god. It is celebrated with fanfare, including colourful parades and the daring flying pole dance in Peru.
  5. Kwanzaa (African)

    Kwanzaa is not a religious holiday but a celebration of African heritage and culture. It is a seven-day celebration from December 26 to January 1 and features the lighting of the kinara each day, similar to the lighting of the menorah during Hanukkah. Each day is represented by a principle of Kwanzaa: 1st – Umoja (unity), 2nd – kujichagulia (self-determination), 3rd – ujima (collective work and responsibility), 4th – ujamaa (cooperative economics), 5th – nia (purpose), 6th – kuumba (creativity), and 7th – imani (faith). If you want to greet a person celebrating this holiday, you say “Habari gani” (Swahili) and the person will reply with the principle for that day.
  6. Ramadan (Muslim)

    Ramadan is a month of daily fasting during daylight hours that culminates in Eid-al-Fitr, when they break the fast. The period is determined by the Islamic lunar calendar so it can fall on different dates each year. In 2017, it was from May 27 to June 25, next year it will be May 16 to June 14 (the next time it will be in December to January will be in 2030). Aside from fasting, Muslims also give up bad habits during the season, pray more, read the Quran and attend services. Eid-al-Fitr is a time of celebration with the family, giving gifts, and doing charitable works.
  7. New Year’s (secular)

    New Year’s eve December 31, marks the last day in the Gregorian calendar. It is a night of merry-making marked with fireworks, parties and feasts. Many people also observe rituals that are thought to give them good luck and help them start an auspicious year like serving certain food to bring wealth (black-eyed peas in the southern part of the US or seven round fruits in Asian countries), wearing polka-dots, and making noise with fireworks to drive off bad spirits.
  8. Three King’s Day (Christian)

    Also known as Epiphany, this marks the day the Three Wise Men visited the Christ child and brought him gifts. Christians celebrate this on the first Sunday after January 1. In Hispanic cultures, this is a day of gift-giving and other festivities.
  9. Chinese New Year (Chinese)

    Chinese New Year marks the end of winter and the start of spring. It usually falls between January 21 and February 20 based on the lunar calendar. The first day of celebration starts with the New Moon and ends on the Full Moon 15 days later. People indulge in feasts, dragon and lion dances and parades, fireworks, and giving out luck money in red envelopes to children.

Saturday, December 23, 2017

A DREAMY PLACE TO READ

I don't support any products unless it encourages reading, hands-on exploration like blocks or imaginary play like cardboard boxes (and they're free) or wonder like blowing bubbles. I have't seen this product so I don't know about the product quality. The idea itself sounds great like a ready-made fort out of a table and sheets. Watch their ad online and see what you think.  I had a music box that projected mother goose characters, planets and stars to music on my daughter's ceiling. She felt safe to go to sleep and loved to look at books in her crib under the projection. Check it out at: MyDreamTent.com;
See it in use
AND OH THE WONDER!

Thursday, December 21, 2017

FEELING LESS SAD AT THE HOLIDAYS

Many people don't feel as happy as they think they should at the holidays. My friend's loss brought a little reality about the wonderful things I have in my life this season. The story below was posted on Mary Kole's blog. She is a children's book literary agent.I don't know her well, but the personal story she posted on Kidlit.com is extraordinarily well-written and in its sadness shows how people can somehow find some joy in tragedy.


The Beautiful Life of Nora Pepper


Hello, dear readers! Before Thanksgiving, I wrote about the upcoming addition to our family, a little girl that was born on November 30th, to join big brother, Theo, 21 months. I’ve always been very honest, as a person. And I’ve always shared what I’m going through on the blog. Like the loss of my beloved cat Sushi, or the fertility journey we took to start building our family. Not only is it therapeutic for me, but I genuinely believe that truth brings people together and helps us all feel a little less alone.
It is with deep, deep regret that I’m sharing the following news. You’ll have to excuse the shifting tense. Different parts were written at different times in Nora’s journey.
When we brought our beautiful Nora Pepper home, she was extremely lethargic. We had the doctors in labor and delivery, several pediatricians, a home health nurse, and a lactation consultant on our team, and they all said she was just sleepy because she was born at 37 weeks. That can take a lot out of a gal! They all told us, “In the magic of time, she will wake up.”
And in 99.99% of babies, they would’ve been right. But a week later, she was still not waking up to ask for food, and feeding her from a bottle was an hourlong ordeal every three hours. She was only taking 1.5 ounces each time, and barely. Her weight was down. I had a sinking feeling all along in my mother’s heart, and I finally insisted that we go to the hospital. Luckily, we live 15 minutes from Children’s Minnesota, a world-class facility that sees a lot of very complex neonatal cases.
After ruling out any acute causes of lethargy, like infection, we were left with something much more devastating. A chronic condition. Physically, our wonderful Nora is absolutely perfect. Everything is formed beautifully. And I’m not just bragging as a proud parent about her ten elegant fingers, her curly eyelashes, or the softest newborn hair I’ve ever kissed. We’ve had all the x-rays and MRIs in the book, and she is physically flawless.
But due to a rare, random, and terribly cruel genetic mutation, Nora has a pattern of brain wave activity that is incompatible with life. Or at least a life that involves any cognitive awareness whatsoever. It’s likely that her brain was built like this from the start, has never functioned in any other way, and never will. The evidence-based data on this type of brain wave pattern is invariably grim. In short, this state has been described  as “the worst pattern short of electrical silence” and “a preterminal finding”.
We took Nora back from the NICU, and we had two beautiful days with her. Our plan was to repeat the brain scan after a week and enter hospice care at home if the findings were the same. Nora had other ideas, and she let us know that she was ready to go ahead of schedule. We spent our last hours together as a family, making sure that all she ever knew in her brief time was pure love. She passed peacefully in our arms on December 16th, 2017.
I believe in miracles. I do. Snow on a quiet morning is a miracle. My son’s laughter is a miracle. The overwhelming love and gratitude I feel for Nora, even as her condition has put me on the loneliest and most difficult road I’ve ever walked, is a miracle. Unfortunately, there was not going to be a medical miracle. The sad but simple truth is that, all of these things about life that are miracles, Nora would never have been able to experience. Not in this case. Even in the magic of time, she never would’ve woken up.
My husband, Todd, and son, Theo, and I are tremendously blessed. We have the support of friends and family, we both have meaningful work to help us feel human, we’ve found strength we never knew existed inside ourselves. Because Nora’s prognosis is so rare and so dire, we’ve been invited to participate in a comprehensive research study where her entire genome will be sequenced. Since her condition is coded into her genes, there was no way to help Nora. Even if we found the exact mutation, the die had already been cast. But maybe, in some small way, she will help another family down the road because of what the research team can learn.
This is a post I never thought I’d have to write. All any of us can do when the road turns dark is to keep going. I’m grateful for the opportunity to call Nora Pepper Macdonald my daughter. She always will be. Even as my heart is broken, it is somehow more full than ever. If you’re reading this, you’re part of why. Thank you for listening to our story.
Credit for these beautiful photographs belongs to Sarah Ann Photography, and they were taken before we found out. We are thrilled to have these treasures, we will cherish them for the rest of our lives.
People have been asking, so we’ve decided to encourage friends and family to make a donation to the Children’s Hospital and Clinics Foundation. The incredible people of Children’s, from her neonatologist to her palliative care nurse, were some of the most outstanding human beings we have ever met. We never felt alone for a moment, and we still don’t. You can designate your donation to a specific care area. We would prefer the Neonatal Program, the Neuroscience Program, or the Pain, Palliative and Integrative Medicine Program. Or you can give to a fund for urgent hospital and patient needs. Children’s wasn’t able to help Nora due to her prognosis, but it is our dream as a family that they may help others in her honor. Please be sure to let them know that you are giving in memory of Nora Pepper Macdonald. If you are so compelled, please donate online, or call them at 952-992-5509.



Sunday, December 17, 2017

A CHRISTMAS TRAGEDY

On December 10, 2017, my friend's 22-year-old son lost his battle with drug addiction. She is a great mother and works long and difficult hours to support her family. Now, she will never see her eldest son marry, have a family, play with his children, travel the world together and he will never get to do those things. He will never enjoy all of life's pleasures and sorrows. He will miss this Christmas and every Christmas from now on. He won't be at his next birthday. For everyone he knew, he will stay 22 forever. Those same people will be swallowed by sadness on those same birthdays. My friend will never bake her oldest son another birthday cake or sing him "Happy Birthday." His younger brother will miss him terribly, for the rest of his life. His mother's birthday was a few days after his death. His funeral was December 16, 2017.